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Find Your Village with Be Her Village

Filed Under: motherhood, postpartum, pregnancy // February 19, 2021

 This post is sponsored by Be Her Village but all opinions are my own. 

It’s my third pregnancy and I’m really only now just focusing on myself.  During each of my previous pregnancies, my main concern was the baby. 

Not my body. 

Not preparing mentally and physically for labor. 

Not the birthing process. 

Not recovery. 

Not my mental health.

I should have prioritized all of those, so I want to remind you that you should, too.

One way to do so is by creating a Be Her Village Registry. Be Her Village is an online registry that enables you to get the gifts YOU really need. The registry helps you build your birth team, as well as to seek services for the Fourth Trimester, to Restore Your Body, and for your Heart + Mind. 



During labor, I remember feeling defeated and confused. Despite having a supportive husband and family, no one really knew what birth would be like and how to provide the support I needed during my childbirth. Looking back, I could have greatly benefitted from doula support during my previous pregnancies. I just did not know that then. I know it now.

I also remember needing all of the lactation support I could get with my firstborn but feeling at a loss with where to go, who to ask and I was unsure we could afford a lactation consultant. One of the best parts about Be Her Village registry is the registry guide that lists available services, making it easier for moms and parents-to-be to choose the support they need. If you do not see a particular service or service provider you have in mind in the guide, you can add a custom service to your registry.


Sure, baby clothes and items are cute and helpful but maternal and parental support is of equal – if not greater – importance. No one knows that better than moms. 


While I can’t go back and change my past pregnancy, birth and postpartum experiences, I can change how I approach them in the present. I can begin prioritizing myself now. And I’m determined to tell other mamas to prioritize yourselves, too. The baby’s health and well-being is important — AND so is yours.

So, get support.

Advocate for your best interest.

Ask for help.

Find a village.

Let Be Her Village help you do so.

Simply create your Be Her Village Registry, share it with your friends and family, and feel the love. You will get money to make your experience of becoming a parent and bringing baby home as sweet as it can be.

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About Jacqueline Hernandez Lewis

Featured on Associated Press as a trailblazing Latina influencer and on Parents as a Latina mom to follow, Jacqueline Hernandez Lewis is a writer and content creator celebrating womanhood, motherhood and humanity. She also works for a NYC nonprofit dedicated to preventing domestic violence and promoting gender justice. Of all her roles, mom and wife are her favorite.

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