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Why I Write

Filed Under: blogging, life, writing // January 15, 2019

Writing became an outlet for me during my then-boyfriend/now-husband’s career. I felt lonely and missed him and sometimes sulked that we were living two separate, very different lives. I was in law school and he was an ocean away working for the Navy. 

So I wrote to simply express my feelings. My very first post was secretive, short and to the point (and not very well-written…). Since then, I’ve catalogued my life and our life together in much greater detail. 

These days, I write for similar reasons (as an outlet, to express myself and to connect with readers and others) but I also write with a more pointed reason in mind: for my legacy. I want to give my kids (and their kids and so on) something from me that captures part of the essence of who I am, what I think, and what I do. 

Sure, photos capture moments and memories. But words capture feelings in a way that photos can’t.


I want my boys to know how much I thought of them and loved them and have no doubt they’re my world. They’ll be able to tell that from the way I treat them, and from my smile and look in my eyes in photos of us together. 

But they’ll also know because I am writing and telling them so.

And so I share my writing on this little corner of the internet…that will hopefully survive the test of time and not be lost, like, say, a journal could be. 

Thank you for reading my writing. 

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Letting Myself Feel

Filed Under: coping, life, poetry, writing // October 16, 2018

I wrote this piece with tears in my eyes as I stood on the subway platform. It was the morning of, unbeknownst to me, my younger cousin Abby’s passing. I did not know she would get called home later that night. I wrote this, which is unlike anything I’ve written before, in the midst of feeling an overwhelming sadness about news of her deteriorating health. Oh how I wish I could have shared more of what I thought of and felt about her with her… Hindsight definitely is 20/20.

Letting Myself Feel

Here I stand
Here I am
Questioning
Wondering
Pondering

How?
Why?
What if?

Trying to make sense
Trying to channel happiness
Trying to suppress
Because I don’t want to feel the sadness

But I let myself
I must let myself

Cry
Smile
Laugh
Feel

It’s the only way to deal
To be honest and real

If you’d like, please visit Abby’s Promise to learn about how we are giving back in Abby’s name and how you could help. Miss you Abby. <3

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What’s blooming around here

Filed Under: blog, writing // August 24, 2016

Before last week, I couldn’t remember the last time I drafted a blog post on my laptop. That’s right… for as long as I can remember I’ve been typing away on this blog from my cellphone. Most times on the commute to work.

You see, it’s tough. It’s tough when your commute is 1.5 hours long, you’re pregnant AND tired during said commute… and then you have a newborn baby. Time is fleeting these days. Whatever free time I seem to have (AKA when the baby is asleep) is spent staring at him or cleaning up around our home.

The last couple of weeks I’ve actually had time to read through some of my old posts. While reading them, feelings of nostalgia came upon me. Not necessarily nostalgia for those times in my life–because I’m currently living my best life–but for the writer in me who produced those writings. 
And so, here I am. I won’t have the same time I once did to dedicate to this space but I want to put forth the effort. I’ve decided to redesign and rename the blog before doing so because I want a colorful, energetic, joyful space to come to whenever I want to write. A place that will encourage me to do more of what I love.
I hope you enjoy the new look!
(Tomorrow, I’ll explain the inspiration behind it.)

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