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Promises, promises

Filed Under: love, Promises // April 10, 2013

One day while in Hawaii, my brother said “promises were meant to be broken” and Tim turned to me and said “I don’t understand why people say that … Promises are meant to be kept.” Yes, he’s a keeper. But he’s also right so he got me thinking.

And then I stumbled on this old photo I took of an excerpt from “The Fault in Our Stars” by John Green. 

 
It completely relates to the promises Tim and I made to each other in the beginning of our relationship, especially for me. Because I had no idea what being in a long distance military relationship would be like. I hated him being “far” away in Virginia and then was almost shell shocked to learn he’d be heading to Hawaii for 3 years. But I made a promise to be loyal and supportive and I’d fallen in love with him. So I kept my promise because of it.
I think too often people think promises are wishy washy or too old-fashioned. But I think made with the right people, they are as precious as ever.
“Promise? Promise.”

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About Jacqueline Hernandez Lewis

Featured on Associated Press as a trailblazing Latina influencer and on Parents as a Latina mom to follow, Jacqueline Hernandez Lewis is a writer and content creator celebrating womanhood, motherhood and humanity. She also works for a NYC nonprofit dedicated to preventing domestic violence and promoting gender justice. Of all her roles, mom and wife are her favorite.

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  1. Anonymous

    April 10, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    That's a lovely post. Promises are meant to be kept, I agree. I have fallen prey to feeling like I can't keep a pretty big promise lately and this post made me remember that a promise is a promise and it's meant to be kept, no matter the "inconvenience" or "other stuff" of it all. I was just struggling with that thinking last night. Thanks!

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  2. Unknown

    April 10, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    Beautifully said. Promises are forever. =]

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  3. Jen

    April 10, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    I love everything about this post, it's so true. Promises should never be made lightly.

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  4. Julie-Becoming A Navy Wife

    April 11, 2013 at 5:50 am

    This was so great. I couldn't agree more. I too loved this post 🙂

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